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The strap-on

“I want to swap roles, for one night.”

This ritual introduces you to the strap-on. You wear the Harmonia harness with the Prima Donna dildo, you lead, and you start very gently.

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— step by step —

Talk about it beforehand, and choose the moment together. Wash Prima Donna with L'indispensable, before and after. For a first time, take the small size.

Place Prima Donna in the Harmonia harness, and adjust the straps. Use plenty of Encore Histoire d'eau lubricant. Start with caresses, then enter very slowly, and wait for your partner to relax. Increase the rhythm little by little, watching your partner's reactions. Stop at the slightest sign of discomfort.

— the pieces of the ritual —
App includedEncore Histoire d'eau - Lubricant
Apothecary
Encore Histoire d'eau - Lubricant
€32

The Psyché app is free when you buy Encore Histoire d'eau.

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The novel was supposedly written as a series of love letters to her lover, Jean Paulhan, who admired the libertine sexuality and works of de Sade. Our French play on words is an ode to the water-based properties of this luscious lube. So silky it's sure to have you as slippery as the famous erotica would have. A slippery lubricant that helps you glide and slide into the moment of bliss. This product is perfect for solo use or with your partner. Both fragance and colour free, this water-based lubricant is compatible with your silicone toys. Use it on your own to add that extra slip, or use it with a partner to take your sex life to new levels. The watery-texture offers an extremely natural sensation, with no sticky residue, meaning you'll hardly notice it's the lube offering all the lubrication! Who it's for: every woman, alone or together, with every toy and with condoms. Why: water-based, with no scent or colour, it doesn't run and doesn't stick. Lubrication changes with the cycle and the stages of life, and it adds comfort even when you are already well lubricated. When: every time you make love and with every toy.

How to use

Apply a drop or two of this luscious gel to your finger tip, intimate areas or your toys!

Characteristics

PH between 5,19 and 6,35. Condom friendly. Loves your silicone toys too. Discontinue use if irritation occurs. See a doctor if the problem continues. Keep out of reach of children. Wash hands after use. Store in a cool dry place. This is not a contraceptive. PAO (period after opening) for this product is 12 months. For proper storage of your cosmetic product, avoid extreme temperature, heat sources and direct exposure to sunlight. If, beyond this date, the product has a questionable aspect, it should no longer be used. 150 ml - 5,07 fl.oz. Recyclable. INGREDIENTS: AQUA, GLYCERIN, PROPYLENE GLYCOL, PHENOXYETHANOL, HYDROXYETHYLCELLULOSE, CARBOMER, CYCLOPENTASILOXANE, SODIUM ACRYLATES COPOLYMER, ETHYLHEXYLGLYCERIN, PARAFFINUM LIQUIDUM, DIMETHICONE, PPG-1 TRIDECETH-6. PARABEN FREE - SANS PARABEN.

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Psyché - Delayed pleasure - with the hands (for her)
App
Psyché - Delayed pleasure - with the hands (for her)
€19

Free when you buy Encore Histoire d'eau, lubricant.

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For her: blindfolded, she receives. With his hands, he brings her to the edge of orgasm twice, stops, then lets her go all the way. A voice guides him, for about half an hour. Who it's for: this app is for the couple: she receives, and he learns to lead her. Why: she is blindfolded. With his hands, he brings her to the edge of orgasm twice and stops, then lets her go all the way. A voice guides him. The app comes free with every Encore lubricant. When: it lasts about half an hour, for an evening together.

Characteristics

Digital content. Nothing to download: the app opens on softparis.com, on your phone or your computer, with the e-mail address of your order.

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Harmonia - Strap-On Harness
Toys
Harmonia - Strap-On Harness
€59
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Who it's for: the woman-man or woman-woman couple who want to discover the strap-on, anal sex included. Why: this padded corset harness in pale pink satin and black lace is comfortable and adjustable. It is used with the Prima Donna dildo, in two sizes, and size M takes Ares. When: for new sensations together, starting gently.

How to use

Strap on Harness USAGE PRECAUTIONS: Use with or without the Primadonna dildo in two sizes (Small and Medium). The Medium size is also available with or without the Ares vibrator. Start gently and gradually increase the intensity. Monitor your partner's reaction and stop in case of distress. Ensure the hygiene of the strap-on dildo. Use the cleaner l'Indispensable. SAFETY: 1 - Only use your intimate accessory as instructed in this user manual. 2 - WARNING: This is not a children's toy. Keep this product out of the reach of children. 3 - Do not lend your accessories to others. Pathogens can be transmitted. 4 - Do not use your accessory if you experience discomfort before or after use. 5 - Do not use your accessory in the case of irritation or local injury. 6 - Do not use your accessory as a substitute for medical treatment. 7 - Do not use your accessory on sensitive or poorly circulated skin. 10 - This accessory is not designed for use by individuals with reduced physical, sensory, or mental capabilities, or a lack of experience and knowledge, unless a person responsible for their safety has provided them with instructions or explanations regarding the use of this intimate toy. Your accessory is not a medical device. 11 - Consult your doctor before using your accessory if you have an implanted device (pacemaker, etc.) or have undergone surgery in the relevant body areas. 12 - If you have any health concerns, consult your doctor before using this product.

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Prima Donna - Intimate Toy
Toys
Prima Donna - Intimate Toy
€34
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Who it's for: vaginal or anal use, alone or with a harness. Why: its suction cup holds it on any smooth, flat surface: wall, floor, ceiling. Size M has a hollow base that takes a vibrator. When: when she wants her hands free, or together with a harness.

How to use

USING YOUR SEX TOY Your sex toy includes a suction cup base allowing you to attach it to smooth surfaces. With a firm motion, attach your sex toy to the chosen surface. To remove your sex toy from the stand, slowly lift up the base. For additional comfort, use a lubricant from the Soft Paris “Encore” line, except “Encore +“.Never use a silicone-base lubricant with your silicone toys; this can damage them by making them porous and unusable. PRECAUTIONS FOR USE Always clean your toy before and after use with the Soft Paris “L’Indispensable” product or an appropriate cleanser to reduce all risks of infection. Any other types of cleansing may affect your toy and void your guarantee. SECURITY 1 – Your sex toy is only to be used for body massages and the sexual stimulation of erogenous zones. Only use your sex toy according to these instructions. 2 – WARNING. This is not a toy for children. Keep this product out of the reach of children. 3 – Do not use your sex toy if you see that the external layer of silicone has been damaged. 4 – It is important to note that pathogenic agents can be transmitted by lending your sex toy. To protect yourself from any risks of transmission, do not lend your sex toy to other people. 5 – Do not use your sex toy if you experience discomfort before or after use. 6 – Do not use your sex toy in cases of irritation or localized lesions. 7 – Do not use your sex toy to replace medical treatment. 8 – Do not use your sex toy on skin that is sensitive or has poor circulation. 9 – This device is not designed to be used by people presenting physical, sensory or mental disabilities or a lack of experience and knowledge, unless a person responsible for their safety has provided them instructions or explanations concerning the use of this sex toy. 10 – Consult your doctor before using your sex toy if you have an implanted device (pacemaker…) or if you have undergone an operation in the concerned body parts. 11 – Your sex toy is not a medical device. 12 – If you are pregnant, consult your physician before using your sex toy. 13 – If you have any doubts concerning your health, consult your physician before using this product. WARRANTY : Soft Paris sex toys are guaranteed against all manufacturing defects for 2 years. All complaints regarding your sex toy must be sent during the guarantee period via the Contact form on the site www.softparis.com, as stipulated in the Soft Paris General Sales Conditions. WARRANTY LIMITS The guarantee does not cover defects caused by accidental damage, poor use or use non-conform to the instructions and/or safety advisories. Taking apart and/or damaging your sex toy voids the warranty and may hinder the repairing of your sex toy. Soft Paris cannot accept the return or exchange of products which have undergone this type of handling.

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L'indispensable - Intimate Cleansing Foam
Accessories
L'indispensable - Intimate Cleansing Foam
€18
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L’indispensable is a cleansing foam designed specifically for the hygiene and maintenance of your intimate toys. Our solution is alcohol-free, and effectively preserves the material and colour of your intimate toys, meaning they last and operate longer. Protect your toys, keep them clean and hygienic with L’indispensable. Who it's for: every woman who owns an intimate toy. Why: alcohol-free and with no rinsing, it cleans toys and preserves their material and colour. It can also be used on intimate areas. When: before and after each use of a toy. For a weekend away, one bottle is enough.

How to use

Apply the foam on your intimate parts. Wipe off any excess product. No need to rinse.

Characteristics

Tested dermatologically and under gynaecological control. Keep away from children’s reach. PAO (period after opening) for this product is 12 months. For proper storage of your cosmetic product, avoid extreme temperature, heat sources and direct exposure to sunlight. If, beyond this date, the product has a questionable aspect, it should no longer be used. 150 ml - 5fl oz. Recyclable. INGREDIENTS: AQUA, HYDROXYETHYLCELLULOSE, GLYCERIN, COCAMIDOPROPYL BETAINE, PHENOXYETHANOL, ALPHA GLUCAN OLIGOSACCHARIDE, ETHYLHEXYLGLYCERIN, MALVA SYLVESTRIS FLOWER LEAF EXTRACT, ANTHEMIS NOBILIS FLOWER WATER, BENZOIC ACID, DEHYDROACETIC ACID. PARABEN FREE

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