Soft Paris
Ten at a time
— ritual —

Ten at a time

“I want a spanking, done properly.”

The spanking builds slowly, at your pace. You say where you are, and he adjusts.

WhenOne evening a week, when you feel like it.

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— step by step —

He spanks you in series of ten, and he caresses your skin between each series.

Before

Choose your safe word. Lean over the cushion.

During

He starts with five minutes by hand, over your knickers. Then the knickers come down. He gives series of ten, by hand or with the paddle. After each series, he caresses your skin for a minute and asks you: "From 0 to 10?" He adjusts to your answer.

Afterwards

He smooths massage oil on your skin. You hold each other, and you tell each other what you enjoyed.

— the pieces of the ritual —
Snake to Love - Pillow
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Snake to Love - Pillow
€59
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This pillow and satin case may look like an innocent and elegant piece of decor, but we guarantee there's more to the story, as it is every soft bondage lover's best friend! Do as you wish with the satin drapes that hang to the side... Who it's for: the couple who love bondage. Why: it is a decorative pillow whose satin cover and ribbons double as a blindfold and ties, and nobody guesses what it is for. When: in bed, whenever the mood strikes.

Characteristics

Pillow & Pillowcase: One size black satin case and 3 ribbons, one to use as a blindfold and two as handcuffs. Fierce snake and flowers in pink, green and red embroidery. Golden medallion. Dimensions: 11.8"" x 25.6"" Pillowcase care instructions: Hand wash separately in cold water. Do not tumble dry. Do not bleach. Pillow care instructions: Wipe clean with a damp cloth.

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Cerberus Collection - Paddle, Collar and Leash set
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Cerberus Collection - Paddle, Collar and Leash set
€35
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Discover Cerberus, the ultimate trio of pleasure. This luxurious quilted set—collar, leash, and paddle—invites thrilling sensual exploration. Who it's for: the couple who want to explore domination. Why: this quilted set brings together a collar, a leash and a paddle. When: after talking it through: clear consent and limits agreed beforehand.

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Nietzsche - Paddle - Leather (Burgundy)
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Nietzsche - Paddle - Leather (Burgundy)
€89
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Nietzsche once said “Let your commanding itself be obeying!” Should this advice prove to be a difficult task, this burgundy leather paddle will surely come to the rescue and command obedience of any rebellious slave. The cross stitching on this paddle will add texture to the spanks and leave beautiful detailed marks on the submissive. This accessory is thick and sturdy, with a wrist strap to allow for a more secure grip and accurate delivery. Let the use of this instrument stitch together the bond between submissive and dominant and each strike be a reminder of the importance of understanding one’s place in the dungeon. On our pain scale (1-5), Nietzsche is a level two: the perfect paddle for beginners or casual users. Bring philosophy to the bedroom with this range of handmade leather accessories. The ‘philosophers’ are stunning, exclusive products of the highest quality, made with natural leather. Choose between paddle, whip and flogger to dominate mind and body and elevate yourself and your partner to a higher understanding! With these tools, unleash your innermost passions in the pursuit of a greater knowledge of your partner’s wants, needs and desires in order to learn new ways of thinking about pleasure and pain. Who it's for: the couple discovering domination play, beginners or occasional players. Why: this thick burgundy leather paddle has cross-stitching that marks the skin. It is level 2 out of 5 on the pain scale. When: after talking it through: clear consent and limits agreed beforehand.

How to use

USAGE PRECAUTIONS: All used accessories should be rinsed and cleaned with "L'indispensable" cleaner. When using a paddle in sexual activity, make sure to: Obtain clear and informed consent. Openly communicate about preferences and boundaries. Use a clean and well-maintained accessory. Avoid sensitive areas. Start gently and gradually increase the intensity. Monitor your partner's reaction and stop in case of distress. Ensure the hygiene of the paddle. SAFETY: 1 - Use your intimate accessory only as instructed in this user manual. 2 - WARNING: This is not a children's toy. Keep this product out of the reach of children. 3 - Do not lend your accessories to others. Pathogens can be transmitted. 4 - Do not use your accessory if you experience discomfort before or after use. 5 - Do not use your accessory in case of irritation or local injury. 6 - Do not use your accessory as a substitute for medical treatment. 7 - Do not use your accessory on sensitive or poorly circulated skin. 10 - This accessory is not designed for use by individuals with reduced physical, sensory, or mental capabilities, or a lack of experience and knowledge, unless a person responsible for their safety has provided them with instructions or explanations regarding the use of this intimate toy. Your accessory is not a medical device. 11 - Consult your doctor before using your accessory if you have an implanted device (pacemaker, etc.) or have undergone surgery in the relevant body areas. 12 - If you have any health concerns, consult your doctor before using this product.

Characteristics

Materials: genuine natural leather Leather colour: burgundy Stitching colour: black Tag: SOFTPARIS in black leather Measurements: Width: 10.5cm Full length: 31.5cm Paddle length: 16.5cm Handle thickness: 1.3cm Paddle thickness: 0.8cm Tag cord length: 20cm

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Sartre - Two Fingers Paddle - Leather (Black)
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Sartre - Two Fingers Paddle - Leather (Black)
€89
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Sartre once said “Desire is expressed by touch as thought is expressed by language”. This paddle is the tool you need to link your most profound desires to your partner’s skin. Made of thick black leather with red stitching, this instrument offers a range of possibilities from light taps to a heavy beating. Use it to communicate your feelings with your submissive by administering pleasure or pain as needed. Whether they must be rewarded or punished, it will not let you down. The red detailing, including a triple X stitching on one side of the paddle, makes this a truly stunning piece of bondage equipment that will easily match with other leather accessories. On our pain scale (1-5), Sartre is a level four: the perfect paddle for you if you want to take your pain play to the next level! Bring philosophy to the bedroom with this range of handmade leather accessories. The ‘philosophers’ are stunning, exclusive products of the highest quality, made with natural leather. Choose between paddle, whip and flogger to dominate mind and body and elevate yourself and your partner to a higher understanding! With these tools, unleash your innermost passions in the pursuit of a greater knowledge of your partner’s wants, needs and desires in order to learn new ways of thinking about pleasure and pain. Who it's for: the couple who want to move up a level. Why: this two-strip black leather paddle with red stitching goes from a teasing caress to a firm spanking. It is level 4 out of 5. When: after talking it through: clear consent and limits agreed beforehand.

How to use

USAGE PRECAUTIONS: All accessories used should be rinsed and cleaned using "l'Indispensable" cleaner. When using a sexuality paddle, make sure to: Obtain clear and informed consent. Communicate openly about preferences and boundaries. Use a clean and well-maintained accessory. Avoid sensitive areas. Start gently and increase intensity gradually. Monitor your partner's response and stop in case of distress. Ensure the hygiene of the paddle. SAFETY: Use your intimate accessory only in accordance with this user manual. WARNING, this is not a toy for children. Make sure to keep this product out of reach of children. Do not lend your accessories to others, as pathogens can be transmitted. Do not use your accessory if you experience discomfort before or after use. Avoid using your accessory in case of local irritation or injury. Do not use your accessory as a substitute for medical care. Do not use your accessory on sensitive or poorly circulated skin. This accessory is not designed to be used by individuals with reduced physical, sensory, or mental capabilities or a lack of experience and knowledge, unless a person responsible for their safety has provided them with instructions or explanations regarding the use of this intimate accessory. Your accessory is not a medical device. Consult your doctor before using your accessory if you have an implanted device (such as a pacemaker) or have undergone surgical procedures in the relevant parts of your body. If you have doubts about your health, consult your doctor before using this product.

Characteristics

Materials: genuine natural leather Leather colour: black Stitching colour: red Stitching detail: XXX Tag: SOFTPARIS in black leather Measurements: Width: 5.1cm Full length: 55.5cm Fingers length: 25cm Tag cord length: 20cm

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Begonia - Crop
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Begonia - Crop
€29
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Uncover unique sensations with an elegant leather whip and golden detail. Who it's for: the couple curious about the sensations between pain and pleasure. Why: this 45 cm crop has a patent leather tip and gold details. When: after talking it through: clear consent and limits agreed beforehand.

How to use

USAGE PRECAUTIONS: All used accessories must be rinsed and cleaned with L'Indispensable. When using a whip in sexual activities, ensure that you: Obtain clear and informed consent. Communicate openly about preferences and boundaries. Use a clean and well-maintained accessory. Avoid sensitive areas. Begin gently and increase intensity gradually. Monitor your partner's reaction and stop in case of distress. Maintain the cleanliness of the whip. SAFETY: Use your intimate accessory only as instructed in this manual. CAUTION: This is not a children's toy. Keep this product out of reach of children. Do not lend your accessories to others, as pathogens can be transmitted. Do not use your accessory if you experience discomfort before or after use. Do not use your accessory in case of local irritation or injury. Do not use your accessory as a substitute for medical care. Do not use your accessory on sensitive skin or areas with poor circulation. This accessory is not designed for use by individuals with reduced physical, sensory, or mental capabilities, or those lacking experience and knowledge, unless a person responsible for their safety has provided instructions or explanations regarding the use of this intimate toy. Your accessory is not a medical device. Consult your doctor before using your accessory if you have an implanted device (e.g., pacemaker) or have had surgeries on the relevant body parts. If you have health concerns, consult your doctor before using this product.

Characteristics

Patent leather toecap. Length: 45 cm

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Voltaire - Travel Whip - Leather (Gold)
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Voltaire - Travel Whip - Leather (Gold)
€45
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Voltaire once said “Man is free at the instant he wants to be.” If you’re wondering how to take a step further and liberate your sexual practice but worry about the level of pain you can handle or feel intimidated by the serious look of our other toys, Voltaire is perfect for you. On our pain scale (1-5), this whip is a level one: a fun accessory for holidays, pocket sized for kinky times on the go, ide beginners who want to experiment or act out a fantasy. In honour of its namesake and the Enlightenment era, allow Voltaire to enlighten any Sub’s mind with the understanding of obedience and teach any Dom how to control the one at the end of the whip. Bring philosophy to the bedroom with this range of handmade leather accessories. The ‘philosophers’ are stunning, exclusive products of the highest quality, made with natural leather. Choose between paddle, whip and flogger to dominate mind and body and elevate yourself and your partner to a higher understanding! With these tools, unleash your innermost passions in the pursuit of a greater knowledge of your partner’s wants, needs and desires in order to learn new ways of thinking about pleasure and pain. Who it's for: the beginner couple who want to try something new. Why: this 24 cm gold leather mini whip is the gentlest of the range: level 1 out of 5. When: on holiday or for a fantasy scenario: it fits in a pocket.

How to use

USAGE PRECAUTIONS: All accessories used must be rinsed and cleaned using the "Indispensable" cleaner. When using a whip in sexual activities, make sure to: Obtain clear and informed consent. Communicate openly about preferences and boundaries. Use a clean and well-maintained accessory. Avoid sensitive areas. Start gently and gradually increase the intensity. Monitor your partner's reaction and stop in case of distress. Maintain hygiene of the whip. SAFETY: Use your intimate accessory only in accordance with this user guide. CAUTION, this is not a toy for children. Ensure this product is kept out of children's reach. Do not lend your accessories to others. Pathogens can be transmitted. Do not use your accessory if you experience discomfort before or after use. Do not use your accessory in case of local irritation or injury. Do not use your accessory as a replacement for medical care. Do not use your accessory on sensitive skin or skin with poor circulation. This accessory is not designed for use by individuals with reduced physical, sensory, or mental capabilities, or a lack of experience and knowledge, unless a person responsible for their safety has provided them with instructions or explanations regarding the use of this intimate accessory. Your accessory is not a medical device. Consult your doctor before using your accessory if you have an implanted device (pacemaker...) or have undergone surgical procedures on relevant parts of your body. If you have any concerns about your health, consult your doctor before using this product.

Characteristics

Materials: genuine natural leather Leather colour: gold Tag: SOFTPARIS in black leather with gold leather cord Measurements: Handle length: 6.5cm Whip length: 24cm Crack length: 17cm Tag cord length: 5cm

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The Aglaé app is free with Chou-Chou.

App includedChou-Chou - Vegan Massage Oil (Lavender)
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Chou-Chou - Vegan Massage Oil (Lavender)
€28
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Vegan moisturizing massage oil. Contains lavender essential oil, jojoba oil and vitamin E. No synthetic fragrances, colors or preservatives. Rich in antioxidants. Hypoallergenic. Protects the skin's natural barrier. Suitable for all skin types. Who it's for: the couple who love massage and want a vegan oil with no synthetic fragrance, colouring or preservatives. Why: it moisturises the skin with lavender essential oil, jojoba and vitamin E. Hypoallergenic, it suits every skin type. When: for a long, slow massage, in circles or figures of eight.

How to use

Warm your hands by rubbing them vigorously against each other, then massage with slow, regular movements, delivering long, gliding circles.

Characteristics

GLYCINE SOJA OIL, LAVANDULA HYBRIDA OIL, TOCOPHEROL, LINALOOL, SIMMONDSIA CHINENSIS SEED OIL, VITIS VINIFERA SEED OIL, HELIANTHUS ANNUUS SEED OIL, LAVANDULA ANGUSTIFOLIA OIL, LIMONENE, GERANIOL Discontinue use if irritation occurs. See a doctor if the problem continues. Do not ingest. Exclusively for external use. Keep out of reach of children. Store in a cool, dark place. 100ml - 3.4 fl. oz

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App includedChi-Chi - Massage Oil (Ylang-Ylang)
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Chi-Chi - Massage Oil (Ylang-Ylang)
€28
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Moisturizing massage oil with vitamin E and Ylang-Ylang essential oil. Rich in antioxidants. Hypoallergenic. Protects the skin's natural barrier. Suitable for all skin types. Who it's for: the couple who love long massages. Why: it moisturises the skin and smells of ylang-ylang, a floral, exotic flower. It also works as a body oil. Its scent is noticeable and should please you both. When: for a long, slow massage, in circles or figures of eight.

How to use

Warm your hands by rubbing them vigorously against each other, then massage with slow, regular movements, delivering long, gliding circles.

Characteristics

Ingredients: GLYCINE SOJA OIL, HELIANTHUS ANNUUS SEED OIL, PARFUM, TOCOPHEROL, CANANGA ODORATA FLOWER OIL, BENZYL BENZOATE, LINALOOL, FARNESOL, GERANIOL. Discontinue use if irritation occurs. See a doctor if the problem continues. Do not ingest. Exclusively for external use. Keep out of reach of children. Store in a cool, dark place. Use within 12 months of opening. 100ml - 3.4 fl. oz

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App includedCha-Cha - Massage Oil - With CBD
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Cha-Cha - Massage Oil - With CBD
€28
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A powerful elixir of emollient plant oils with anti-inflammatory and antioxidant properties, Cha-Cha contains the active ingredient CBD (cannabidiol) to deepen the massage and intensify your unspoken chemistry. For an irresistible magnetic attraction, massage slowly then let the moment take over… Who it's for: the couple who want to unwind first. Why: the massage lasts longer and goes deeper. CBD relaxes without any high, because the oil contains no THC. When: after a long day, or after sport.

Characteristics

GLYCINE SOJA OIL, ETHYLHEXYLSTEARATE, PRUNUS AMYGDALUS DULCIS OIL, TOCOPHEROL, CANNABIS SATIVA SEED OIL, HELIANTHUS ANNUUS SEED OIL, CANNABIS SATIVA SEED 100ml - 3.4 fl. oz. Discontinue use if irritation occurs. See a doctor if the problem continues. Do not ingest. Exclusively for external use. Keep out of reach of children. Store in a cool, dark place.

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For a complete experience, combine it with:

His Sunday massage
His Sunday massage

The following Sunday, he massages you from neck to feet, and you say what you want.

Teasing session
Teasing session

Before the spanking, a teasing session: air, water, earth and fire.

The morning caress
The morning caress

The next morning, he wakes you with a slow caress.

— the party that goes with it —

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